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What exactly is an intellectual salon anyway?
An intellectual salon is an intimate gathering of diverse people hosted by a salonnière who moderates conversation in the pursuit of intellectual growth and artistic expression and delight.
The History of Intellectual Salons
Salons were a type of gathering common in 17th and 18th century France. Wealthy women hosted meetings in their home, often literally laying in bed with their friends seated on stools, couches, and chairs around them. The whole gathering centered around a lively moderated conversation with the hostess, or salonnière, at the center. The topics were varied but included a healthy mix of intellectualism and art. The goal was civil conversation and personal enlightenment.
Do Modern Intellectual Salons Still Exist?
Modern salons still exist though they are hard to find, which is why I decided to create a digital intellectual salon here on Living in Retrospect. This is my way of sharing my personal intellectual journey with you. It also happens to be a very good excuse for me to document the things I’m learning and connect with interesting people along the way.
Why I Chose a Salon Over a School
I went to school to be a teacher, but school is far too structured to create real learning. What I love about the intellectual salon is its formal yet intimate nature. Although the conversation was kept formal and focused on elevated things, the setting was usually the hostess’ bedroom.
I have spent years of my life in a classroom, but my best learning has occurred by bed or laptop in the comfort of my own bed. So it only makes sense that I would invite you into this most intimate form of education to truly share what I am learning. The imagery of the salon reminds us that our best thoughts often occur in rest and comfort and our best conversations only occur when we allow ourselves to be intimate and vulnerable.
Relax and enter a state of flow. Let your mind wander and expand. The salon is a safe environment where thought is cultivated.
Experience the Power of Synergy
The main reason that I’ve been drawn to the idea of an intellectual salon is because so many key historical figures and artists bumped into each other in salons and other intellectual gatherings throughout time. I’ve always thought it interesting that you could have so many brilliant people in one room at one time — before any of them have fully exhibited their greatness. We know the power of synergy. I believe that when a group of people come together seeking enlightenment, self-improvement, knowledge, and artistic creation, they are inspired and pushed well beyond their individual capacities in their personal work.
So please, comment. Share your own stories and experiences. Debate (civilly). Make the posts in this Intellectual Salon a genuine conversation.
Do You Have Ideas Or Art to Add To the Conversation?
The salonnière is in many ways a mother, sharing her own knowledge and inviting her beloveds to share theirs in intimate communion — in hopes that all might be bettered by association. So yes, the Intellectual Salon includes all of my personal intellectual, philosophical, and artistic content, but it is also the home for all of my favorite mind-expanding content from others. Find a growing collection of curated links, guest interviews, and content from experts in various fields. I will be following the whims of my heart and mind as to what I pursue, but if you have ideas or art to share, don’t hesitate to reach out.
Come. Sit on the couch and share with the rest of those who are gathered.
My Poetry:
Mormon Sexual Repression: Masturbation & Wasted Intelligence
This is my story of Mormon sexual repression, or in other words, how I squandered my intelligence for a decade of self-loathing. Forgive the healthy dose of sarcasm; it's been a long time coming. I joined the Mormon church as a teenager. One of my earliest experiences...
Food as Medicine
A brief discussion of my current food journey, wherein I have discovered that treating food as medicine is the key to a happy and healthy life. A couple of years ago, I realized my attitude towards food and health was anything but nourishing, and I've been...
Life Update + On The Other Side
Once again, it's been a substantial amount of time since I last updated this blog, and once again I feel that familiar urge to share my words with you all. I just brainstormed over 100 different topics I could write about, but because it's been so long, I know I first...
Save Money on Groceries: The Ultimate Guide + Cheap Meal Plan for Two
No matter the reason you need to save money on groceries, I am here to help! The following are all of my best tips to save money on groceries, and they are interwoven with my experience as a poor college student and young wife desperate to feed my new husband on a...
How to Work From Home Like a Professional Hermit
COVID-19 has changed the way we work, and people across the country are having to learn how to work from home for the first time ever. I've been doing this for a decade, so I've compiled my best tips for how to work from home to help you remote work newbies! Read the...
I Might Have COVID-19, But I’m Not Important Enough For A Test
And this is why you can’t trust the numbers. (In other words, yes, it’s in your community.) “You might have COVID-19.” That’s what the doctor said at the end of my telehealth consultation. But there is no test for me. She explained that the only people eligible for...
The Residual Trauma of Stalking
The real harm from stalking is not in the momentary fear, but in the lifelong doubt to your safety and security. Read on to learn about my experience with the residual trauma of stalking. The Stalker Who Started It All... A little over a year ago, my ex-husband was...
5 Things To Do Instead of Writing Happy Birthday on my Newsfeed
I appreciate the sentiment, but these things are just as fast — and will actually provide real value in my life. I don’t want to sound ungrateful. After all, you took time out of your busy day to write something for me on my birthday. And since my birthday is also one...
How to Survive an Existential Crisis (And Why Survival Isn’t Enough)
If you spend any time at all analyzing yourself, your behaviors, and your life, an existential crisis is practically inevitable. If you are wondering how to survive an existential crisis, you've come to the right place. I've been there, and hopefully I can help you....
Becoming Homeless: A Story of Millennial Homelessness
I’m embarrassed as hell to even write this post, because let’s be honest… when I imagine a homeless person, I’m just as judgmental as the rest of you. Sure, I paint over my judgment with concern and an occasional dollar bill. But ultimately, I view homeless people as...
I Lost My Voice, And Then I Lost Myself.
I've been a writer my entire life; I've always known that sharing my story was my calling. My primary goal in life? To live a life worthy of a memoir. My crowning achievement? A month where over 100,000 people read my words. I had reached the point where I was...
I’m 30. And I’m No Longer The Same Woman.
This post has been sitting as a draft in my archive for almost a year. It is one of several that I just couldn't bring myself to publish - but now is the time. I'm is who I'm is... take it or leave it. Curse words and all. When you write about your life, you have to...
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